tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post8980267485238076578..comments2023-11-18T09:28:47.732-08:00Comments on Living here now: Setting Moon/ Rising SunDenise Emanuel Clemenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10982725113569943337noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-49998032147417414982014-12-09T15:51:12.465-08:002014-12-09T15:51:12.465-08:00I like what anonymous said. You are dealing with s...I like what anonymous said. You are dealing with so much. The pressure builds up. Put a pinprick in that balloon, left the air seep out, slow and cool. At the very least it's somewhere else to be, something else to do. Alone with a good therapist or with a good group. I hope you do it. Love. 37paddingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12400464105403622384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-5254343446688376302014-12-09T13:30:00.379-08:002014-12-09T13:30:00.379-08:00I'm looking forward to hearing of your up comi...I'm looking forward to hearing of your up coming changes. I recently read your blog from the beginning and your insight is amazing. We have a lot in common - divorce, caring for my 89 year old mom, the love of sea glass, the red Kitchen Aid and Prius. I am getting my hair cut this Sat. and I was contemplating a change. I feel like parallel universe to yours except I'm a boring accountant. HugsLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659861991637826572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-32986591811546939382014-12-09T13:02:00.820-08:002014-12-09T13:02:00.820-08:00That's some good advice up there from Anonymou...That's some good advice up there from Anonymous. I didn't seek help, and I kept going far to long. It took a terrible toll on my health and relationships. You're going through something that is tougher than many will ever know. So often, no one cares for the caregiver. I don't know about the hair. Maybe I'd cut it. What the hell?Bella Rumhttp://culdesacchronicles.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-13171637173294288882014-12-09T11:41:43.414-08:002014-12-09T11:41:43.414-08:00Complicated grieving, what you are going through h...Complicated grieving, what you are going through has a name even tho there aren't many people in this world who understand what it means.<br /><br />Ask for help. When you have a cold you don't hesitate to reach for whatever meds may help you. This is not different. Too much pressure at a time when the emotional resistance is a its lowest point. <br /><br />Ask for,and get help. Our world is way too upside down for us to try and make sense of anything except to go through everyday motions without a sense of direction. We are the halves of something left behind without a map. Don't try to do it alone. Friends are wonderful but we need more than the love and understanding of friends. <br /><br />We need a cartographer and some tools. Seek help and don't cut your hair yet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-70886915748274045962014-12-09T05:29:43.116-08:002014-12-09T05:29:43.116-08:00I am in awe of you. I am in awe of you. Ms. Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776404747858099919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-49673795240185612652014-12-09T04:48:50.689-08:002014-12-09T04:48:50.689-08:00You sound worn out. Sending hugs. And what Eliza...You sound worn out. Sending hugs. And what Elizabeth said:)<br />My life so farhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16721270441968035994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2382277614743623418.post-46993418070438866382014-12-08T22:25:33.677-08:002014-12-08T22:25:33.677-08:00I need to come up and have a drink with you.I need to come up and have a drink with you.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03313726816776097840noreply@blogger.com