Not in Maui, not in Kauai, not in pretty downtown Hilo, but yeah, follow that arrow. I'm in my room. Which is fabulous since I slept downstairs in the hallway outside my mom's room for six nights. Things are okay in Pillville for today. And thank you, all of you for your comments. I now know about executive function, complicated grief, and that there is support and love if you ask for it.
Oh, and I'm also over HERE.