Friday, January 17, 2014

Hospital: Day 3 or How I learned to love the L.A. freeways--and thank you

The infamous 405, (as seen from the Getty Museum) looking like a river of molten lava

I moved to Los Angeles from the midwest in 1975. I didn't have a car, so I took the bus to work, and my boyfriend drove me anyplace else I wanted to go. The freeway on-ramp in our neighborhood was also an off-ramp (I'm not going to explain this--if you don't get it, be glad.) When I finally started driving in L.A., I would cry--no matter if I was merging in or getting off. Thirty-some years later, I still loathed driving the freeways.

It was a big relief for a million reasons when I moved out of L.A. to my little paradise up the coast. These past few days with the man who loves me in a suburban L.A. hospital, the freeway speeds me to him. Five lanes going exactly where I want to go.

This marvel of modern urban engineering also delivered my friend Toni to my house this morning where she is hanging out with my mother, who after her tug of war with the neurologist yesterday, has fervently promised to be good, while admitting that she should not be left alone for hours and hours. (More about that in the next report from Pillville.) This evening the freeways will speed me to the nearby house of a couple more friends where I will enjoy their good company and the antics of their handsome cats before I'm given a bed for the night.

Then tomorrow, back to the hospital for day 4. The man who loves me is doing well--as well as anyone can do after such a traumatic surgery. The cancer is out. The road ahead of him will not be a fast and furious freeway. But on that slow and narrow lane that leads back to wellness, all I ask is that it be smooth.

Thank you all so much for your good wishes.


Ms. Moon said...

And more and all good wishes. Be safe as you drive. Love and may the fires clear and all be well.

Suz said...

you are a good woman
I wish for you a good week and your man home safely with you soon.....recovering in your love
glad mama is being cared for and watched over
continued prayers...


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Andrea said...

Sometimes the lava does flow us along in the right direction. I'm glad it takes you to the man who loves you, to friends with cats and beds, and eventually home again. You are mighty gracious for a woman so very much needed on all sides. Am watching and learning.

Elizabeth said...

So good to have an update and to see it delivered in such a lovely and thought provoking way. Safe driving and I hope the pain is not too overwhelming for The Man Who Loves You.